Congratulations! You have earned the right to taste exquisite (and overpriced) dishes and the right to unwind on the dance floor at the wedding of another. Whether it's a friend you've been attending since you were two years old, a family member with whom you share some DNA, a colleague with whom you leave at happy hours as soon as you leave work or simply because that you are the "plus one" of a charming boy (and you are quite incapable of remembering the bride's name), the professional bridesmaid Jen Glantz has some golden rules to remind you before the big day .

  • Do not arrive with empty hands

When you are invited to the "bridal shower" (this party before the party), at the bachelor party and wedding, make sure to bring a gift. No matter if it is a gift that you have made yourself or a common gift, you will make sure to bring a little something to celebrate the happy couple.

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  • Watch your "plus one"

If the invitation specifies that you can come accompanied, it means that you will not have to dance the whole evening with the 80 year old uncle or you will not be stuck at the singles table, eyeing on your faithful cocktail . However, remember that you are responsible for your "plus one". Keep an eye on alcohol consumption so that it does not roll under the table or strip strip on the floor.

  • Unplug during the ceremony

When the bride and the future spouse are ready to say "Yes", cut your phones and put them in your bag. You will have plenty of time to take selfies and share them on Instagram with the hashtag specially created for the ceremony during the reception.

  • Saying "I want to be your bridesmaid" means "I do not do anything"

When you accept to be a bridesmaid, it is important to remember that your homework goes far beyond simply going down the alley to the altar and wearing a silk dress. Be there for the bride and support her like you would for your best friend.

  • Answer as soon as possible

When you receive the invitation, try to return the reply coupon as soon as possible. Especially if you answer absent. Thus, the couple can better understand the final number of guests.

  • Everything passes ... except wearing white

Be free to wear a slightly staggered outfit if it represents your personality. But when you review the outfits in your dressing room, avoid anything that is white or ivory. This color is reserved EXCLUSIVELY to the bride!

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  • The dance floor is yours

Yes, weddings are stressful and very expensive for the bride and groom, but remember that in the end it is a party. So, on the trail, feel free to hug you until the end of the night. Have fun !

Source: marieclaire.co.uk