Because the bride does not necessarily want to.

"I am absolutely against the EVJF, all this American tradition, it does not please me at all, it's not my culture." Confides Katia, who is about to pass the knot in May. Like many brides, she asked her girlfriends to spare her the sequence of mandatory gags, kitsch disguises or even the strip teaser a bit nerdy . "A day between us at the spa where anyone wants or a nice dinner is enough for me. " And we understand her. Who really wants to end up with a banner "bride to be " and a plastic tiara in full public space?

Because the price.

Between hosting, traveling, the bridesmaid dress or even the dreaded gift, the wedding of your best friend represents the air of nothing a non-negligible budget in your finances. A sum that a weekend in Barcelona, ​​London or Marrakech is likely to inflate. Because not only, you have to pay for your apple (plane, hotel, restaurant ...) but also for the bride that it is tradition to invite. So we quickly arrive to have to leave a half SMIC of his PEL already in agony. A madness that the more fortunate (or unconscious) can afford, but not the subscribers subscribers to badly paid jobs. And nothing worse than a grouped conversation around the budget that bidule or so deigns / wants / can grant to the EVJF of your beloved friend.  

Because logistics.

Do you all have the budget? Mazel tov ! But between the one who wants a festive weekend in Ibiza, the one who is convinced that a meditative retreat in the Larzac will fill the bride ( true story ) or the one who asks to take her "little chip" of 6 months because " she nurses it again, the logistics of the event quickly turns out to be a constant battle. And it saves you the conflicts of agenda, EVJF already programmed, old acquaintance that wants to incruster and other existential crises that will make this weekend the worst that you have never had to organize.

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